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★★★★★
I've done therapy, I've read every book on attachment, I've journaled for years — and somehow I still kept attracting the same person with a different name. This workbook was the first thing that actually made me feel something shift. The somatic check-ins especially... I didn't expect to cry on page 3. In a good way. Thank you.
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Margot V.34 · verified purchase
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★★★★★
ok so i was skeptical bc ive bought SO many of these but this one hit different?? the part about venus and mars and how they work together actually clicked for me in a way no one has ever explained. finished the whole thing in a weekend and then went back to do it properly lol. worth every penny
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Daniela R.27 · verified purchase
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★★★★★
After my last relationship ended I felt completely lost. A friend recommended this and I'm so grateful she did. The Love Blueprint ritual at the end brought me to tears — it was the first time in years I felt like I actually knew what I wanted, and more importantly, what I was no longer willing to accept.
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Simone H.41 · verified purchase
This is not a workbook.
This is the beginning of attracting your soulmate.
Before you can choose the right love you need to stop choosing what hurts you.
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Your Venus feels deeply.
Your Mars chooses wisely.
When they align — you stop attracting the wrong love.
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From heartbreak and confusion to self-worth, clarity, and the love you truly deserve.
The shift
This is what changes when you come back to yourself.
✗ Before
✗You change yourself to keep someone from leaving
✗You confuse intensity and chaos for passion
✗You give more than you receive and justify it
✗Your worth depends on whether someone chooses you
✗You wait, adapt, and make yourself smaller
✗You understand your patterns but can't break them
✗Calm relationships feel "boring" intensity feels like love
✦ After
✦You stay present and grounded, as yourself
✦You feel the difference between attraction and real alignment
✦You choose reciprocal relationships with clarity
✦Your worth is stable it doesn't need to be earned
✦You choose with intention and walk away without convincing
✦You understand where the patterns came from and you're free
✦You recognize that safety in love is not boredom. It's home.
Love Code Method ✦
Meet your guide
Alexandra
Relationship Coach & Founder
Alexandra
Monroe
Relationship Coach & Founder
I spent years studying the psychology of love, attachment, and emotional patterns — not just in books, but in my own life. I know what it's like to love deeply and still feel lost in the same cycles, to give everything and wonder why it was never enough.
The Love Attraction Code was born from that journey. From the moment I stopped trying to be chosen — and started choosing myself.
"You don't need to fix yourself to deserve love. You need to come back to yourself."
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Real women. Real shifts.
What happens when you come back to yourself.
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★★★★★
I want to be honest — I bought this during a really dark night at 2am, right after realizing that I'd spent the last 8 years in relationships that all looked completely different on the surface but felt exactly the same from the inside. I was always the one giving more, always the one adjusting, always the one wondering what I was doing wrong. I didn't need another book that would tell me to love myself. I needed something that would actually show me where I stopped. The Chiron chapter broke something open in me that I hadn't been able to access in years of therapy. Not because it was dramatic — because it was quiet and kind. The Love Blueprint at the end... I read it back to myself three times. I have it saved on my phone. I think about it every day.
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Astrid L.
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★★★★★
The somatic check-ins are what make this different from anything else i've tried. like i KNEW i had patterns intellectually. but feeling them in my body?? that was something else. i cried during the chapter on emotional security not bc it was sad but because i realized i had never actually felt that before. i want to feel that. im working toward it. this workbook is coming with me
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Camille B.
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★★★★★
Genuine, no fluff, no toxic positivity. I appreciated that it never tells you to just vibrate higher or manifest better. It looks honestly at why you keep choosing what you choose and gives you real tools to shift it. The journaling prompts alone are worth it. I've filled two separate notebooks going through this.
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Nadia K.
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★★★★★
Bought it as a gift for my sister and then ended up doing it myself too lol. We both did it separately and then had the longest conversation about the Venus & Mars chapter. It created a whole new language between us for talking about relationships. Honestly didn't expect that. Lovely, lovely work.
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Priya M.
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★★★★★
I've been in therapy for 3 years and this workbook gave me more to work on in one weekend than some of my sessions have. Not saying it replaces therapy — but it went places my therapist and I hadn't gotten to yet. Specifically the part about how you learned to love based on what was familiar, not what was actually good for you. That one sentence restructured something in my brain.
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Françoise D.
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★★★★★
Just want to say: i finished it. i actually finished a workbook for the first time in my life. usually i do 3 pages and abandon it. this one kept me. the writing is warm, its not preachy, it doesnt make you feel judged. it feels like talking to someone who genuinely gets it
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Ines V.
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★★★★★
The section on self-worth embodiment was a turning point for me. I have understood intellectually for years that my worth isn't tied to whether someone stays. But understanding it and actually feeling it in your body are two completely different things. The exercises in this chapter helped me experience that difference for the first time. I'm still processing. In the best possible way.
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Sofia E.